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Clearing out your clutter

Many times the Holiday’s can be a huge struggle for so many of us without our loved ones with us. Understanding what our Loved ones truly want this Holiday Season is for us to keep their Love Alive. Here is my Latest Blog on this subject…Susan

Clearing out your clutter

Clearing out your clutter really has an impact on us not only in what is around us in a physical way, but on an emotional level it gives us from within.  Many times, my clients ask me how do they go on without their loved ones??? They don’t know how to be, it’s very sad to see someone in so much pain. It can be very paralyzing to say the least. You feel like your arm has been amputated without the anesthetic, it’s grueling and very real all at once. Once you get past the shock that your loved one is gone then there is the vision of them everywhere in your living space. You don’t want to move anything even where your loved one last put their shoes or tossed their jacket. You want to preserve every object as they left it, because moving it represents a certain disloyalty like you have moved on.

 

The truth is your loved ones do want you to sort through their belongings, keep what’s precious and give away to others what you no longer need. In truth your loved ones do not want their rooms to be turned into a shrine and for you not to stay stuck or paralyzed permanently. Our loved ones want us to wear their favorite piece of jewelry or their favorite sweat shirt, feeling their everlasting presence but to clear out the clutter and start to make your life more of in the now. It’s not disrespectful to their memory to try to live your best self, to remember all of what was good. I tell my clients in order for the spirit to thrive we have to live our best self because they are always watching and truly with us. When we are falling apart or cannot function their spirit cannot thrive. We owe it to them to remember and cherish and to celebrate their life.

 

 

The holidays are coming; so do celebrate their memory being thankful for all they have represented but most of all their love that continues to live on within us, and to continue to celebrate life. Decorate your home and fill it with all of life’s richest blessings because it truly started with our loved ones that have passed. It’s up to us to continue and carry on the traditions of love and life.

 

Wishing all of you a most blessed holiday season

 

Much love, – Susan Current Logo

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Happiness is a Choice: Be Happy

Happiness is a question that comes into focus as the Holidays draw near. As I look around and think back to my own obstacles, I have come to realize that life truly is a choice of how we live it.

You can choose how you want to feel, you can choose to be happy, but you can also choose to be honest with yourself. I know sometimes you can say it’s easier said than done, but how you deal with emotions is up to you. What I have come to realize myself is regrets and worrying are really such a waste of time and good energy.

Focus on Happiness, Not Regrets

There are so many people I have encountered while they are on their death bed and have realized if only there was more time. They came to the realization they had the power and the choice the whole time.

Don’t let years go by and then realize what you didn’t allow yourself, because in truth sometimes when we realize what and how we should have approached things, it is too late.

Losing a loved one comes as a great loss, but in truth what our loved ones really want for us is happiness and to create a grand life for ourselves. They want us to be the best person we can possibly be, which in turn brings happiness and peace to their spirit which allows their soul to have peace and self-growth as well. So this holiday turn your lost faith into renewed hope!

Wishing you all many blessings for a wonderful, connected, and spiritual Holiday Season & New Year

Much Love

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Positive Thinking: Power of Attitude

When it comes to grieving loved ones, positive thinking can be powerful indeed. When a client comes to see me, and they want to connect to a loved one who has passed, I find they are most focused on the trauma, or disbelief of the loved one’s passing. They focus on the pain they feel, or the vision they keep seeing of them as they lay. When a loved one comes to me while in session, they do have messages, and almost always, the loved one does not want my client to feel sad, or focus on how they passed, but wants them to remember the impact they had, and have those good memories.

Your emotions do control your thoughts, what you are feeling controls your actions. I inform my clients you need to stop spending all your time trying to figure out why this happened, but, to trust that it was his, or her time. Some things are not always meant for us to know the answers to, or understand. You just have to trust, and leave it to a higher power. You need to focus not on the tragedy, but on the life that was spent together.

Don’t let something painful be the focal point of your memories. When you relive the pain every day, you refuse to heal.  When you dwell on the painful experiences in your past, you become stuck in the past, and that makes it impossible to move forward.

The power of your positive thinking is very strong, and always the message is clear. When your loved ones come through, they are happy and at peace, seeing everything that’s going on, and yes, they are always with you. Always!

So the question I propose to you is: Do you want to focus on the day your loved one passed, or choose to remember how they lived?

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Meditating Matters When Grieving Loved Ones

Contacting your loved ones around the holidays or just every day, start out by meditating.  Sit quietly, close your eyes, and invite your loved ones to show themselves.  You say say, “Mom, Dad, I love you.  Please show me you’re here.”

Look for the simple sign, a light that goes on or off, a dog barking at an empty space, a song that comes on the radio that was a song that they loved, or a familiar smell.

You have to meditate and not be afraid.  When you’re afraid or grief stricken all the emotions you hold builds up a brick wall and makes it hard for the spirit to come through. When you are not afraid and open to it, your loved ones will reach you in some way.

Wishing everyone a wonderful Passover and blessed Easter!

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Remembering Loved Ones During Holidays

As the holidays approach, we often spend more time remembering loved ones who’ve passed. Why?  It is because we miss them and we know it’s not the same without them around the holidays. We often feel incomplete and we try to make the best of each passing holiday. But what we don’t understand is not only are they still very much with us and see everything that is going on, they are still sharing in our lives.

So remembering loved ones during holidays is natural.  We think more about our loved ones who have passed because spirits need the emotional or metaphysical energy that’s generated by the living to feel their existence. When you, as a living being, have a high energy day, the spirits are drawn to you by your energy. When we think more about them, they are very much here, so yes, you feel them more and it is very real.

The holidays are a very busy time of year for people to want to connect with their loved ones. It’s because it’s a stronger time of year for remembering loved ones when we are energized by their thoughts that in turn fuel the spirits.  If you have a pet such as a dog or cat and you notice your dog barking at an empty space, or your cat may hiss or arch its back and no one is there, your pet is reacting to a spirit that is very much present.

Connecting to Spirits

I have been seeing and talking to spirits all of my life and have been constantly receiving messages from the other side. I have had people meet with me with pure skepticism of what I do. However, often people have said I was not what they expected. I am told that my readings were so natural and that I am an easy person to talk to making people feel so relaxed. I do not go into a trance and I don’t need other objects with me to be able to read but I am told often how normal I really am.

When I am doing a reading, my clients are always amazed how I am able to describe what their loved ones look like, their likes, dislikes, what they did for a living, if they smoked and I can even smell the smoke. The spirits are able to tell me where lost objects are and also what they see in us. When they are not happy or when they are pleased in what we are doing, they let me know. The answers are all crystal clear. I see the spirits as I see you and I, it’s just that simple.

To get more insight in all directions surrounding your life, about the past, present and future, make it part of your New Year’s resolution to start your New Year off with much more direction and clarity.

Happy holidays and wishing you all a very blessed New Year.

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